I Don’t Know What To Do Anymore!

  • donBegging for forgiveness‘t know what to do anymore
 Dear Ire,
Me and my boyfriend cant seem to get along when his daughter is around she is 8 yrs old and constently lies about everything….
example: we were planning a day to the park (me and her) and when her dad asks what we were doing i tell him and she says that im lying.  I don’t know what to do anymore she throws temper tantrums and cries about everything – Anonymous, UK

 

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One thought on “I Don’t Know What To Do Anymore!

  1. I can see how frustrated this must be making you. The coolest person in the world could loose their medal over a situation like this but first, it’s obvious that this little 8 year seemingly from hell doesn’t like you and you need to find out why.
    -Does she blame you for her parents break up? In which case you need to sit her down and possibly invite your boyfriend along to talk to her about it.
    -Is she jealous that her dad gives more attention if not all his attention once you are around? In this case you need to come up with a way to share sometime with her to make her feel a part of the gang.
    -Or is your case such that no matter what you do; she just doesn’t like you and is determined to sabotage you at all cost? In which case you need to let your boyfriend know and ask him what his takes are and how he plans to help you overcome this.

    His response and determination to resolve this largely determines if you are gonna have a successful relationship or not. Just as his daughter comes first, you deserve to be given a first shot of understanding and fair love too. You shouldn’t have to be in the middle of two of them. Your relationship’s success could very well rests on how good and quick you find the balance between the father and the daughter or you will be wasting your time.
    Good luck.

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